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December 12, 2012

Tommy Tuesday ~ The Body Book by Nancy Rue ~ Review and Giveaway!

          “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not The Body Book, Nancy Rueyour own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.” 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NIV)

If you have daughters, you know how important it is to teach them about the body God gave them. Maybe you have young daughters like me and haven’t quite made it to the point yet where you have to worry about that whole “puberty” thing. Maybe you have a tween or teen at home who is happy one minute and crying the next. Or maybe you have overcome these obstacles and are a seasoned mom who can just laugh and say “Been there, done that!” Whatever stage you’re at, being a mom is a lifelong job and being a mother of daughters can be quite the roller coaster ride.

          Sometimes we moms could use a little help when it comes to talking to our daughters about awkward subjects such as periods, first bras, and even boys. That’s why I have fallen in love with The Body Book, one of the newest editions to the Lily Robbins series for girls by Nancy Rue. It is filled with practical, straightforward advice for girls ages 7-11 who are entering the age when their bodies begin to change. Why wasn’t this book around when I was a girl? It would’ve made things so much easier to have a book like this to refer to for all those weird questions and feelings I was having at the time.

The book includes fun quizzes, Q&A sections, scripture verses, and places where girls can write down their prayer requests and journal entries. Each chapter provides information that moms and daughters may not have thought about before such as, “how to find your bra size” and stocking up on supplies for the “big day”. I think it’s a great book for both moms and daughters to read. For moms, it will help to know what kinds of things your daughter is learning about so you can prepare for questions that may be coming your way. For daughters, it’s great because sometimes it is easier to read a book about this stuff, espescially if you feel uncomfortable talking about it at first.

          My oldest daughter is only four and so far the worst question I have gotten is, “When will I grow boobs so I can feed my baby sister too?” I know the day is all too quickly approaching when I will have to deal with more than the adorable wonderings of my kindergartener. That doesn’t mean I’m off the hook though; The Body Bookalso talks about taking care of your body, emotional ups and downs, exercising, and eating right. A girl doesn’t have to be a teenager to start learning about these things. It was only two days ago that my sweet Noelle had a breakdown because she couldn’t fit into her size 2T Minnie Mouse Pajamas. “I want to be a baby again!” she cried.
          As moms, it’s our responsibility to start setting good examples for our girls now, so that by the time they become independent they will have already formed good habits. Here’s a few tips on how to get started:

 

          1)  Exercise! If you are exercising regularly, your girls will see that and will probably want to join in. You don’t  have to run a marathon! I like to do a 30-minute walking video during the colder months, and go on walks around the neighborhood when it’s warmer. You can ride bikes, play catch, jump on the trampoline, walk the dog, or have a dance party in the living room. As long as you’re having fun and staying active, that’s all that matters. The best part is when you have a little cheerleader like mine who says, “Go Mommie, Go!”, as I try to keep up with the “walking people” (as she calls them) on my TV screen.
          2)  Make eating healthy fun! Use cookie cutters to cut shapes into pieces of cheese, arrange the food on your child’s place to look like a smiley face, make fruit and vegetable smoothies, or let your kids help pick out the fruits and veggies at the grocery store. Getting them involved in the meal planning  can be a fun way to spend time together too!
          My attempt at making a turkey ut of a tortilla wrap, apples, carrots, and dried cranberries. Whatever, my daughter LOVED it!

3) On those emotional days, talk about what is making your daughter feel sad. Come up with ways you can nip the blues in the bud. Maybe go on a special Mom or Dad dates, go out for ice cream, or watch a movie together. Whatever it is, make sure she knows you love her and that God does too.

4) Stop calling yourself fat! C’mon, moms, you know we all do this. We stand in front of the mirror examining our body, hair color, or uneven skin tone and complain about how unhappy we are with the way we look. The truth is, our daughters see us do that and will pick up on our bad habit. Your daughter will learn what Lily Robbin’s calls “God Confidence” from you. “You look good when you are good. You look beautiful and you feel beautiful when you are sure of yourself. A lot of people call that self-confidence. It’s really God-confidence.” (The Body Book, pg. 103)

5)   Let your daughter be who she is! Let her wear stripes with polka dots, or jeans under her fancy dress with crazy   socks. As long as she is dressed modestly, let her find her own style and try not to criticize her choices. She is her own unique self and that doesn’t always mean she will have the same tastes as you do. You can make suggestions, but never get upset when she chooses something different. Your love and support will mean the world to    her. Maybe she’s a soccer player and not a ballerina, like you were. Maybe she hates to play with dolls, while you loved it. Encourage her uniqueness and creativity. After all, those are the things that makes her special!

           The Body Book is one I will be storing for safe-keeping for the day when my daughters are ready to read it. Until then, I can do my part by modeling healthy habits, and by showing them what it means to be God’s girl—a girl who is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

 Questions:

          Do you like to go on dates with your daughter? What is your favorite way to spend time with her? Do you have a special place you go to talk? If so, I’d love to hear all about it!
          Until next time, Happy Reading!
Yours in Christ,

 S

 

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  1. Anonymous says

    December 12, 2012 at 4:02 pm

    I have four girls so our dates vary. I usually let them pick. We have done everything from bowling to ice skating to ice cream and a movie. Each one is unique and memorable. My girls like to cuddle in bed with me for talking.

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